{"id":5007,"date":"2023-12-05T09:16:52","date_gmt":"2023-12-05T08:16:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.brianvanleeuwen.com\/?p=5007"},"modified":"2024-04-08T18:53:28","modified_gmt":"2024-04-08T16:53:28","slug":"loslaten-wat-we-diep-van-binnen-verlangen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.brianvanleeuwen.com\/en\/loslaten-wat-we-diep-van-binnen-verlangen\/","title":{"rendered":"Letting go of what we desire deep inside"},"content":{"rendered":"
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If we are willing to let go of whatever we desire deep inside, it will come to us.<\/strong><\/div>
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That sounds really nice, right? But in practice it's a different story. Because how do you let go of something when it's so dear to you? How do you let go of something when it's your biggest dream? How do you let go of something when you've been working towards it your whole life?<\/div><\/div>
To be honest\u2026 I find it quite a challenge. Maybe you recognize it\u2026<\/div>
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You are working on a dream with passion. You want to contribute to a better world. You do it not only for yourself, but especially for the people around you.<\/div>
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You are completely in the flow, but at a certain point you notice that it is becoming more difficult. Suddenly there are goals, expected results and comparisons. You start to see more and more results as success. And what you did it for... that starts to disappear more and more into the background.<\/div><\/div>
In other words, the ego takes over and makes it its life's work. And then it happens... you get attached.<\/div>
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Attached to results. Attached to outcome. Attached to planning and wanting to control the process. And if expected results, outcomes and planning are not achieved, you get disappointed.<\/div>
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The ego mill is running at full speed. It has taken over the intentions you started with. And without realizing it, you are only pushing it away further by this behavior.<\/div>
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You block the process. You stand in the way. Because of this, what is intended cannot really arise for you. You have become too involved in the process.<\/div><\/div>
What is a logical step then? Zooming out. Stepping out. Detachment begins.<\/div>
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That doesn't mean you stop, but you do mean you start dismantling yourself from all the ego structures you've built for yourself. So that you become detached from the expected outcome again.<\/div>
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It is a process we all have to learn. To detach ourselves and set ourselves aside for the greater, so that it can do its work through us.<\/div><\/div>
That's where letting go comes in again.<\/div>
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Do you dare to trust that the outcome is already there and that you do not have to steer, but can follow?<\/div><\/div>
Do you dare to receive and are you willing to take steps that the universe maps out for you?<\/div><\/div>
Do you dare to follow the signals? Do you dare to think differently?<\/div>
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Are you willing to let go of the old working capacity and allow the new to emerge?<\/div><\/div>
It is a process\u2026 every time you notice that you are starting to step back into ego actions, structures and concepts, you notice it, you step out of it in anger, very consciously, and you choose again to move from that surrender.<\/div><\/div>
The question you can ask yourself is: am I still following? Or am I steering again?<\/div><\/div>
Because it is about following the path, not directing and influencing the path.<\/div><\/div>
Then you will see that your \u201cwildest\u201d dreams will become reality. That you will be taken care of. And yes\u2026 you will be caught by the soft arms of our universe.<\/div><\/div>
So my question is, are you willing to let go?<\/div>
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I can guide you through this. Feel free to take a look my working method<\/a> for all possibilities \"\ud83e\ude75\"<\/span><\/div>
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Together we create heaven on earth,<\/div>
Love,<\/div>
Brian<\/div>
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